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Port Chester Teens Meet Police Up Close, Personal: Learn All Lives Matter

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Nicole Hernandez, left, and Melanie Blackburn display "norms" -- or rules -- agreed on with their peers including "be on time," "come sober" and "no electronics" during class.

Nicole Hernandez, left, and Melanie Blackburn display "norms" -- or rules -- agreed on with their peers including "be on time," "come sober" and "no electronics" during class.

Photo Credit: Jon Craig
Jim Isenberg, executive director of the North American Family Institute in New York, speaks to a group of Port Chester teenagers. Port Chester Police Chief Richard Conway, at right, also spoke to the high school students on Friday.

Jim Isenberg, executive director of the North American Family Institute in New York, speaks to a group of Port Chester teenagers. Port Chester Police Chief Richard Conway, at right, also spoke to the high school students on Friday.

Photo Credit: Jon Craig
Port Chester High students were congratulated by state Assemblyman Steve Otis, center, and state Sen. George Latimer, right.

Port Chester High students were congratulated by state Assemblyman Steve Otis, center, and state Sen. George Latimer, right.

Photo Credit: Jon Craig

PORT CHESTER, N.Y. -- Fourteen high school teenagers spent their afternoons with Port Chester police last week, but nobody was in trouble.

To their amazement, the youths discovered that the local police officers they met had grown up as teenagers with uncertain futures, too.

It was part of a Youth & Police Initiative (YPI) leadership training program funded by the Westchester County Department of Social Services and led by the North American Family Institute, which has offices in Elmsford. 

The sessions gave students a chance to talk about life lessons and aspirations and hear from police officers about their own life struggles and success stories.  The goal is simple, NAFI says on its web site: "Provide young people with critical life skills and foster a desire for a successful future."

On Friday afternoon, Port Chester Police Chief Richard Conway was a guest speaker. Conway talked about a college football teammate named Chris who has become the most decorated officer in the New York Police Department. It's not someone's size or muscle that matters, Conway told the group: "It's the size of your heart that will get you somewhere in life."

State Sen. George Latimer described growing up on the south side of Mount Vernon and being written off as someone who would never go anywhere in life.

"You matter as an individual,'' Latimer said. "You can overcome these barriers. . . by who you are inside. The people in this room have confidence in you."

Discussions were led by a facilitator from the North American Family Institute, a private nonprofit human service agency specializing in community-based care for children, youth and adults with emotional and/or behavioral problems. 

NAFI facilitator Charles Morgan said, "This group shared tenacity. You persevered. You were very eager to become leaders." 

The teenagers nodded in agreement. 

Several teens said the experience left them seeing police as human beings. A couple of them said they now want to get more active in community programs or apply for summer internships at the police department.

Another major partner in this initiative, in addition to NAFI and the Port Chester Police Department, was Port Chester Cares (PCC). Jim Isenberg, executive director of the North American Family Institute in New York, said, "They were vital to this program taking place."

PCC Director Alex Payan spearheaded the operational logistics of the program, according to Isenberg. Payan recruited the students, secured the training site and food, and worked closely with Chief Conway, Isenberg said.

Port Chester's program offered two teen sessions this month and has been bringing youths and police officers together for eight years.

Conway said the youths who participated will be invited to other events, such as trips to Bear Mountain and Manhattan.

Port Chester police who spoke to the group last week included: Capt. Chris Rosabella, Lt. Charles Nielsen, Lt. Robert Salerno and Police Officers Michael Giandurco, Matt Chalmers, Melissa Rosario and Kevin Munnelly.

Since 1974, NAFI has provided programming and services designed around the "Normative Community Approach," which emphasizes the ability of all people to achieve positive change when they are members of a community united in mission and purpose. "Together, we empower individuals to maximize their independence and succeed in the future," NAFI says on its web site.

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